When we fail to tell

Communication is a curious thing, because unless it is clear and concise, and leaves no room for interpretation, confusion can ensue. Why? Because the listening party is left room to reach conclusions based on assumptions. When this happens disappointment can ensue, feelings are hurt, and damage is done to relationships, both personal and professional.

Communication must be timely to be of value, since even a perfectly communicated message or idea, delivered too late, can cause the same confusions and disappointments as cited above. A last minute change of plans, even when fully explained, understood, and accepted for what it is can turn joy and anticipation into bitterness and regret.

When we speak clearly, without evasion, and in a timely manner to people in our personal and professional spheres who are important to us our understanding of one another becomes ever clearer, and our bonds grow ever stronger.

When we choose to avoid the timely truth, even if because we sincerely don't want to hurt or disappoint, we do more damage than the truth itself could ever do.

Remember too that on any given day we haven't a clue how many other times this same scenario has played out for someone, and if you're the last in line to deliver bad news, you may be the first person they give up on.

Just my thoughts for the day.